You gotta be in it to win it. So you gotta be totally focussed in the situation you're in. "In it" being here and now. The room you're in now. The place you spend your Monday to Friday's. The special people in your life. Not looking over your shoulder waiting for things to change for your perception of better. That stops you seeing what's here, right under your nose. Linked with the continuing contentment theme. Ouch, ouch, ouch.